I need some relationship advice.:

I need some relationship advice.

I guess it’s kinda sad that I am going to ask relationship advice on Yahoo! Answers, so don’t judge me, I really don’t have anyone else to ask.

That being said. I’ve been with my BF now for about two years. I’ll start by saying that we’ve both been faithful to each other since the beginning of the relationship. I trust him that he wouldn’t cheat, however I am a pretty jealous guy. Before him and I started dating he was in a long term relationship with a girl. He dated her for 15 years. They broke up, but still remain friends. She doesn’t know that he’s gay. So she doesn’t know about me. She thinks he’s single. Anyway, he asked if it would be ok if he went to Vegas with some friends that he grew up with. I can’t afford to go so I can’t go with. I really have no problems with him going with these people. They are from his church so it’s not like they are going to stripclubs or anything. Anyway he bought his plane tickets and hotel room which are both non-refundable. A few weeks ago he told me that she called him and said “suprise I bought tickets and I’m going with”. I think it’s wrong of him to go to Vegas with his ex girlfriend. I can’t tell him not to go cause he’s already bought his tickets, and it’s not like I can tell him to tell her that she can’t go. What should I do? I really don’t want him to go but I can’t stop it. I basically trust him that he won’t cheat but I don’t trust her. I don’t want her to throw herself at him. Also, now it’s about principle. He just doesn’t get why I’m so freaked out about this.

Any advice would be great. Thanks!

One Response to “I need some relationship advice.:”

  1. Ms.blackwitched says:

    ok well first of ll i would have to say that if he really loved you and was serious about your relatioship then if i were you i would ask him to tell her before they go that he is gay and in a serious relationship with someone else and isnt interested. i know what its like to get jealous and the only thing i can say is if you trust him then try not to get paranoid and annoy him all the time while he is away, if hes honest with his ex and tells her hes gay then that will help matters, however if he doesnt then i would ask why. although yes 15 years IS along time, however that was two years ago and hes been with you for a lnog time as well. <br/>

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