Relationship advice please…?:

Relationship advice please…?

I need some relationship advice please, and I will try and make this as short as possible. I met a guy recently and we got on really well. We started texting each other constantly and eventually i ended up in a relationship with him. I couldn’t have been happier when I was with him – he made me feel loved and so happy. However, he started to become distant, and even admitted this himself, apologizing for it. I said its alright and we continued texting, though he was slacking off a bit. At the time I didn’t really notice him becoming distance, but he wasn’t texting me as much as he used to, though he still texted and called me everyday, just not as often in the day. About a month into the relationship he text me one morning to call it off with me, saying he was sorry, but he had lost feelings in me. At first I was shocked and asked why but that was the only answer he gave me. He said we could still be friends, though I didn’t text him at all after that. I was desperate to contact him that day, though I knew that I shouldn’t as it would only cause more hurt. I was so hurt by him and felt so worthless and unloved. One week later he text me ‘Hey’ and I replied a while after saying hey back. we exchanged a few messages, but that was all. A few days later he said Hey again, asked how I was and we exchanged some more texts. That was all and was the last I heard from him. That was three weeks ago now and I miss him so much. I feel so depressed and loved him more than anything.
Continued… I know I shouldn’t but I desperately want to text him to see how he is – I cant get him out of my mind, but I’m don’t want to seem to pushy. I don;t know for sure but maybe it was another girl involved, or at least he thought, or it could have been something else. I want to text him but at the same time I don’t. What should I do? Answers much appreciated. :)

One Response to “Relationship advice please…?:”

  1. Anonymous says:

    Sorry to hear that, but usually with guys going that fast, having a short-lived relationship, there aren’t many possible reasons:
    – when he first loved you it might’ve been lust or he might have been caught up in your appearance
    – another girl caught his eye
    – or he was just really impulsive in the first place

    If a guy really liked a girl he would do anything to be with her. And from what you’ve told us, he really liked you….for a month. My personal opinion based on what you have said is that, you are the one in this relationship investing more. There is always one person in a relationship who loves more, cares more, has more feelings and at this point it is you.

    I’m just going to be harsh and straight up but you deserve better and you should let this boy go. After you guys broke up, he didn’t care, but now he is missing you. That’s how it is for most guys who break up with a girl, they miss the girl later on. It’s normal for you to feel like you miss him and want to text him and see how he’s going but please consider your own feelings. Like if you fall for him again, you guys go out again and he hurts you again.

    And you have to know there is a difference between missing someone and liking someone. You can find better and trust me on that. Your relationship with this boy was so short lived and in that time he barely showed how much he genuinely liked you.

    Good luck.<br/>

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